How to be less embarrassed?

I get embarrassed REALLY easily, and sometimes my friends embarrass me on purpose and I am really upset about it. When I’m embarassed, everyone knows it; I get red and start sweating. Joking is okay, but it goes too far sometimes. How do I be less embarrassed?

Answer #1

My sister was the same exact way. We would just do things to embarrass her on purpose, because we knew it would bother her. So just one day she just started joining in, and doing crazy stuff too. I mean you have to be secure with yourself, and just have fun too. Don’t worry to much of what others think of you. If you do get embarrassed try, and not let your friends know you are. But you gotta learn how to get them back. My boyfriend always says something in the store something crazy, and I am like wow okay I got you. So what I do is wait for a few people to walk by then I say kinda loud you find your gential cream babe you know the cream for your burn. And we both just start busting up. It makes for a good laugh.

Answer #2

uhm feel secure about yourself like as long as you know your confident and stuff it shouldnt matter what people say about you and yeah if jokes go to far tell them you went to far but be comfortable with it and honestly they only do that because you show them insecurity so its an easy target

Answer #3

I think for d time being, you just go with d flow and see where it goes..perhaps they’ll realize that they’re hurting u.. however if you think that they’re going overboard, you shud just walk away and leave d clique for your own good.

Answer #4

I used to get really embarrassed too over little things that shouldnt have even affected me. now I have just gotten to the point where I dont care what people think. life is to short to worry about what certain people think of you and I think thats what makes you embarrassed. I only care about what the people who mean the most to me think about me. they arte the only ones who I care about. Hope this helps you (:

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