How to apologize?

The Cure… Boys Don’t Cry. Here are the lyrics.
http://lyrics.com/url.php?link=http://www.ahimsa.net/thecure/boys_dont_cry.html

Had a fight with a guy friend in highschool and he wrote the lyrics all over the inside of my locker.

first of all, don’t ask her questions that you don’t want to know the answer to. I completely understand why you would - it’s SO hard to have a crush on somebody & not have them reciprocate with the same intensity- but if you are an “overreactor” like you said, then be careful what you say or how emotional you get, because it could scare her. she may like you, but she might not have feelings as deep as yours, so you have to be careful not to freak her out.

I think the best approach would be to say you’re sorry for putting pressure on her & that you care a lot about her, especially as a friend, and just want to work on that. then she won’t be freaked out & you can spend time with her & hopefully in time she’ll see all the reasons that you see about why you should be together!

good luck - hope everything works out for you!

Maybe you are overreacting; I can’t tell from this information but maybe you are. “Sorta” doesn’t mean secondbest, it means she’s not sure about her feelings and is trying to get things sorted out. Your reaction probably put unwanted pressure on her and so she lashed out a bit. The best thing to do now is to cool it off a bit. DO NOT send her anything mushy like roses or stuff; that’s for couples. You two are not a couple…yet, at least. I would send her an email explaining your feelings and how you’re sorry. Tell her you want to stop arguing since it seems like you do. FOLLOW THROUGH with this. Most importantly, tell her how strongly you feel but tell her you’ll back off if she doesn’t return the feelings. You have to realize she might not like you quite as much as you like her. Keep in mind that if she lives in a different town, she probably has other stressful stuff going on in her life that you don’t know about. Try backing off a bit but send her an email to explain your actions and feelings without coming on to her too much. Hope this helps.

-Realilly

thank you, both of you. I will try and see if that works

dude I get in fights with chelsea, this girl that like I really love…and I just apoligize like I mean I just chill for a whie, and used to smoke over it but still I mean I would just apoligize and we’d be cool