How long is too long after a fight/argument to apologize?

Have i waited too long after me and my bestfriends fight to appoligize? So i got in a fight with my friend just over a week ago. I ended up saying that all the guys go for her because she easy. And i think that really hurt her. she hasn’t talked to me since. Wouldn’t even look at me at school. And yesterday i went up and said hey to her, and she just kind of looked at me and was like ‘yeah..’ So i laughed and walked away (not being mean, it was funny, i didn’t think she would even reply) and I know i need to apologize. but now schools on break. And i messaged her today saying ‘You seem more mad at me than i am at you’ and she read it and never replied.. Would waiting 2 weeks for school to start be too long to apologize, or should i like do it online?

Answer #1

. Yeah you should apologize as soon as possible, and send some sort of suitable greeting for Christmas and the New Year. . Best friends are much too important to risk losing them. .

– Best wishes - Majikthise. .

Answer #2

Yeah that’s to long, I agree with Majikthise

Answer #3

It’s been too long already. Message her about how you’re sorry and your words were out of anger. Be persistant and keep messaging her until she replies bc the more time that passes the worse. Don’t wait any longer!

Good Luck and hope you guys reconcile! (:

Answer #4

You could call her and apologise? It seems like you wanted to say sorry face to face but you’re on holidays now so I think the next best thing is over the phone.

Answer #5

If you really care about your friend, I think you need to give her a sincere apology now. Don’t wait 2 weeks. Although I think doing it in person is more appropriate, call her or email her if doing it in person is not an option.

When you go to apologize, don’t laugh about it. What you said was hurtful, and clearly it upset her. When you laugh it gives her the impression that you’re not taking her feelings seriously, which only adds on to the problem.

So, explain that you understand what you said was wrong. Let her know you’re sorry, and that you didn’t mean to say it. Let her know that you don’t think she’s easy, and give her a compliment. While that last step may seem silly, saying that people only go for someone because they’re easy knocks down their confidence. So a nice compliment is good. Just be sure what you’re saying is sincere, though..

Good luck.

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