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How should you approach yourself?

Ok, I got this situation where I do approach women and I am not scared to have confidence. I do get numbers half the time when I try hard enough I’ll usually hit on a waitress at a restraunt or at a bar.

But do they actually like that? because I really cant tell I’ll get numbers they will ask me to hang out with them sometime I’ll call but they never want to go with me anywhere its almost like my confidence scared them or something. I mean I know that women do not like shy men walkin around with there head down not talkin to anyone so how the hell do you get a woman excited???

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Ummm, I think your doing a good job, it’s weird that chick’s don’t want to hang out with you after they gave you their number, maybe (in my case) what I don’t like is when guys think they’re “god” ‘cause they’re just too egocentric like “I’m beautiful, give me your number, I do this and that”, it’s good to show confidence, but also show a softer side. also you should try to take it slow with women and not ask for their number and eveything the first night you see them, maybe just fool around, jokes and stuff, and the next time you go ask her for her number. And never show yourself immature, women like mature guys (at least in my case), show yourself VERY mature, like a man, ask a girl for a drink or if you have a girl beside you in the bar, when she gets the check be like “nono, please let me”, chick ALWAYS dig that (make sure you at least started a conv. with that person). Hope it helps!

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