How---should I try to talk to this girl?

Well it this cute girl I want to talk to ( by talking I mean try to get with or flirt ect.). She seem shy I barly heard her talk.I don’t know to much about her am hoping she don’t turn out to be like the rest of the hoodlum girls arounds. Am not a very social person and I was thinking about trying something in my 5th hour class. But I don’t want everyone to be in my business. So I was thinking about writing a note. I mean yea that sound bad but it can work out good. Am not sure what to put in it. Or I should go about giving her it. And am sorta afraid of how she might react. Cause where I live a wrong move on a girl can get you mob by her brothers or family. So yea advice please and like alway thank

Answer #1

well first of all you need to start talking to her..introduce yourself and ask her about erself a little..then if you think she feels comfortable with you around start the flirrting and etc…don’t just start flirting with her right away or els shell think you jsut want some…also don’t let youself look shy..have a lot of confidence!!! and dont do it all in one day..introduce yourself one day the next just talk to her a little bit more..and if she is quiet most of the time dont automatically think she doesnt like you..maybe shes just playing hard to get.. and really?? writing a letter?? thats a bit cheesy but I guess shell take into consideration how much you want to get to know her and stuff…

Answer #2

Yeah definately hysterical is right.

get to know her, sorta like observe her and what she does and always always listen to her. If she has a problem do your best to comfort her that way she feels she can confide in you. THEN after she feels ready and AFTER yall have know eachother for a while maybe she’ll let you get physical with her, but I think you should wait on the physicalness part because then she’ll just be like all the others. Truly value her.

Answer #3

Confidence with every move you make, don’t be full of yourself around her :)

Writing a poem defining her personality and beauty will surely do the trick :)

I doubt a poem like that can be interpreted as a wrong move by anyone unless they have something against you, just one hint of advice get her to feel comfortable talking to you. More importantly listen and value what she has to say. Don’t get all pushy with her though you want her to feel like she can have an on going conversation with you. Developing a good friendship with her and that can work miracles. Thats generally the best way to try to get with a girl, developing a connection with her emotions first, then you can bond with her physically.

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