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How should I straighten my life out?

Okayy, So I feel like I can’t be myself around anyone anymore not even my best friend.I’m alway’s lying and crying about stuff that happened in my past for some reason I can’t get the stuff out of my head.

I feel that if I start to be my real self, everyone will choose to ignore me because I’m alway’s depressed because of my past.My friends hate people that don’t live life to the fullest. My friends hate people that are sad.If I be myself; my mom will question me constinuously until I actually tell her and my friends will do the same. If I tell them the truth I’m scared that they will reject me just becuase I’m alway’s sad. How should I straighten my life out?

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Answer #1

depends on what happend to you in your past.. but I guess the best way would be to talk to someone you really trust and ask their opinion and they WILL help you get over it

Answer #2

When I have down moments or just feel like crap in general, I vent my frustration out in a diary - ha - sounds corney but it seriously works, its very theraputic. You’ll find yourself feeling much better after it and wonder what was wrong with you in the first place sometimes… I don’t know whats happened in your past but its always best to convide in a friend that you trust - and if she is a true friend she wont just leave you and you will feel much better about everything. Theres nothing wrong with being yourself either - shes your mom, shes there for you and would be upset with you if you werent telling her your upset. When I had some shit going on I just pulled myself together and thought what I was going to do about it. Find a hobby. Anything. But there are always people worser off. :) Hope this wasnt a full on counselling session much - but I hoped it helped.

Answer #3

Well I am the same… I have to pretend to be happy, and it sometimes slips and people are like “whats wrong” and all I say is “im just really tired”, maybe if you talk about it, it will help… But I cant be sure, cause I’ve tried that, and it hasnt help, instead, I got sent to counciling… it sucked. if you do need anyone to talk to, message me… I can help…

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