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How do you handle an abusive drunk of a father?

Im 18 and have been putting up with my dads sh my whole life! I cant take it anymore… He calls me names (hoe, slut, b*, good for nothing piece of s*, and so on) and sometimes we get into fist fights because I tell him about himself now that im older. Can someone please tell me what to do because I dont know anymore..???

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Answer #1

Hope this helps:

If you need someone to just listen, just talk to, or pray with you:

24 hrs: 1-800-488-4673

Ask-A-Nurse: 1-800-892-8260

Problem Hotline: 1-800-448-3000 or 1-800-668-6868

Treating Alcoholism:

http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/alcohol-abuse/news/20000331/complexities-of-treating-alcoholism

Adult children of Alcoholics - Find local support:

http://www.adultchildren.org/Meetings.s

Alcohol Video:

http://www.webmd.com/video/pros-cons-alcohol?ecd=wnl_day_110307

I wish you the best !!

Answer #2

uh, MOVE OUT?

nobody is forcing you to stay with him.. you can legally move out on your own. so do it.

Answer #3

next time he hits you dont hit back and call the 5 oh on his a$$.. lol

Answer #4

Your 18. Its time to move on. If dont have a job go to see a recruiter and think about the military as an option. I bet you know some friends in the Military. If want to know more I could get you in touch with someone. I am retired Army guy. Does not have to be Army. Air force maybe.

It will change your life to the better. Think about it.

Answer #5

just breathe. you’re 18. you must have a car;get in your car&drive. it’s hard, I know. does he always treat you like that, or only when he’s drunk? if its all the time ; then you need to just get away. if it’s only when he’s drunk, talk to him when he’s sober. Do you have other family members you can go to, if so; talk to them. if you have AIM ; my screenname is BLASTitLOUDERx3 ; I’m usually on any time…IM if you need to talk. my name is Katie btw & I know exactly what you are dealing with to a certain point. except I’m only 14 but yeah.

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