How do you get over losing someone

You will never forget him. He will always live in your memory, but he would not want you to mess up your life with grief and depression. The rest of your family is also torn apart by the loss, and I suspect that many if not most of them hold a hatred in their hearts towards the man who caused your brother’s death, a hatred that will eventually destroy them if they can’t move on. You are choosing the healthier path, but you still need help.

Since you are still in school, go to the counselor, medical department, or what ever applies and ask to talk to someone. Professional counselling will probably be needed to steer you through this traumatic time. If there are any teaching or medical universities nearby, they often have clinics that you can go to.

I wish you the best, take care of yourself. (Also, when the rest of your family sees you taking positive steps, it may help them realize that they can too.) Good Luck!!

you’re not the only one who feels like this. People lose loved ones everyday, I recently lost my grandmother and I was devestated! but what they would want you to do is keep living your life and to be happy, cause if you’re happy then they are happy, and I know from reading this that your brother was a good kid and he is now in a better place :)

am sooo sorry to hear that , keep him alive in your heart ,he will always be with you in every step , be the person he wanted you to be, make him proud, he wants you to be happy not to be hurted and you should know that , keep going and do it for his sake, try to get closer to your family and especially your brother , he doesn’t mean what he said, let him know that you love and need him ,stick to each other, and if there’s nothing common between you two, your love to your brother will bring you together , iam here for you if you ever needed to talk, take care.

I dont think your going to forget about your brother. I mean you will always have him in your heart. So I’m saying keep your head up dont look down. Your brother will be guarding you and he wont let you fall.So dont be afraid,show him from up above that you are going to make it for him… Let him know that the only reason you are trying is to make him proud. You can always keep him in mind. Dont be afraid. If you need someone to talk to talk to someone you can trust. If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to message me and I’ll help you. I dont have a problem hearing you out. I’m here to help. There is always someone to help and someone that cares.