How do I tell my mom im not a virgin anymore?!?

I called my mom on the phone because I was in maryland for the summer where my boyfriend still lived and I told her I needed birth control and she said why I told her and she said ok I’ll make you an appointment when you get back to north carolina I was 15 and she said she was fine with tyhat its not a big deal

is it that big of a deal? IT wouldn’t make a difference whether or not I was a virgin to my parents, not like I was 15 and I came home sayin-mom im not a virgin!- haha prety dumb in my opinion.

okay well I would have your boyfriend sitting with you on the couch with your parents looking you straight in the eye. tell them “mom, dad im not a virgin anymore, I know your probably disapointed in me but I dont regret my decisions.” hope this helps

Wow that was a subject that totally had nothing to do with my parents. They had no idea when I had sex, they never asked and I never told. When I had my own children - same thing. I taught them how to be responsible and they took it from there. I’ve no idea when or if they started and don’t want to know.

I guess each family is different, with its different levels of openness but to me, that is way out there.

Im in your position as well. I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years and we’ve been sexually active for awhile and my parents dont have a clue. They think im waiting. I would never tell my parents because there more strict then other parents. But its your choice if you decide to tell your mom and dad. and if you do tell them, make sure you tell them that your using protection. (I hope you are) Good luck to you and your boyfriend sweetie!

Yeah im for sure using protection , and they are pretty strict if my dad finds out he would kill me (not literally) but my mom now seems pretty cool about it all I guess in a way but I still have no idea how shes going to think of me after she finds out that I did it in his house after both his parents and my rents both said that we would never do that in each others house , soo now I think she’s going to be reallly disappointed in me :( yikes ;

Just tell her.. Be forward with her dont beat around the bush

I had sex when I was 14 and it was a bad idea I want to tell my mom but I cant I dont know how else to tell her and she wont leave me alone she keeps telling me wait until your married but everytime she reminds me I feel like crying cause me and this guy broke up and I loved him a lot and he did love me until things went wrong an I wish we didnt do it yet