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How do I tell my girlfriend that she is no good at giving a bj?

My girlfriend and I are putting off sex for awhile but, as we are both horny teenagers, we give each other head. The problem is she is terrible at it, like you can feel teeth and doesn’t even touch the head once its inside only working the shaft and it is very agrevating and I want to tell her but I am worried that she will get offended and not try again. Do you have any tips on how to tell her?

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Answer #1

maddyisafreak is right, I ask me boyfriend before and even during. we talk about it. :)

Answer #2

A good benchmark to tell if you are in a solid relationship built on trust and understanding is whether or not you feel comfortable enough telling your partner something as basic as ‘’Could you please stop grinding your teeth across my genitals?’’ If you can’t manage that, you have bigger problems in your relationship than bad oral sex.

Answer #3

instead of telling her that she’s terrible at it, why don’t you tell her what you’d like her to do? communication helps during the actual event or even before. telling in a nice way will still offend her.

hope that helps :)

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