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How do I tell him she's no good for him?

I used to be really close to this boy but recently we have drifted apart. I have feelings for him that I have kept secret for a while now to avoid ruining our friendship, which is ruined now anyway. He has recently started going out with this girl that I know is no good for him. She only goes out with boys to get sex from them and I don’t want him to get hurt. How do I tell him this without upsetting him, especially now that things are awkward between us?

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Answer #1

yep and thts where you take over , when he needs sum one … but beware… let him come to you, which he will… only so that he doesnt really feel your takin advantage of his um… need of simpathy… because he will need it… or he might try to isolate him self to feel a bit manly!!! boys… weridos lol

Answer #2

I agree with tazmaniandevil666, though for the friendship part, you could try and accept her ( alittle bit ) know her more, and dont just throw away your friendship because he has a girlfriend. Try to make it work. Talk to him more! And if so does happen with him, like taz said, let him learn on his own, but it doesnt mean you cant be for him when and if it does happen.

Answer #3

Honeslty, this boy needs to realize this himself. Boys are tought don’t worry. his realization might benefit you, as in he may see you as a better person. On the other hand if you go stop him and try to prevent him from seing her telling him that he might get hurt, he will back off from you completely. Boys often do the things that they were told not to do… then the male ego plays into after a while. Taking a girl’s advice who is just a friend may make him feel intimidated. do you get what I mean? Let him learn on his own.

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