How do I stop being insecure?

I’ve been in my relationship with my girlfriend for two years now and im totally in love with her. The thing is, is that she is so beautiful and she has had some pretty good looking guys in her past (im not the best looking guy). And I asked her to tell my the truth on who she thinks the best looking guy she has every been with was, and she told me a guy from the beach. Now I’ve actually seen pictures of this guy (which she still had) and he did look a lot better than me. How can I get over thinking that im not the guy of her dreams?

Answer #1

tough one, only through experience and pain you will grow. I hate to say this, but after she dumps you you will either become stronger or be broken forever.

when you become stronger you will be more confident.

Answer #2

hmm I had diz same experience before because my ex she had a lot of fans that were after her and yet she stayed wit me because she loved me and I told her all diz guyz have money cars muscles evything that I dont got and she said d only thing I had that they didnt was her love… so even though you aint da guy of her dreams she still loves you for who you are and maybe improve your self a bit if you wanna impress her because havin a girl that iz really pretty iz kinda hard to control so yea but if she leaves you for another guy then that fucked up I gav mine up because I wanted somethin better even though she was pretty it waznt enough for me and I did find somethin better

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