How do I let go of my boyfriend who acts rough?

That’s called abuse!! He’s abusing you!! Dump him. He’s not being good to you, as you said he is. He’s only good to you in public so that everyone will think that he is incapable of it. Just dump him. Or go to self defense classes and the next time he hits you, you fight back. And I don’t mean you hit him like a little girl, you hit him as hard as youy POSSIBLY can.

Dear bri2003, YIKES…this is abuse. We love people sometimes who treat us badly…but we must be strong and get out. You need to tell a trusted adult about this. You must tell because this type of behaviour is the beginning of a man who kills. Now, don’t say it would never go that far…because that’s what some of the dead women said. You must, I repeat must tell a trusted adult. Refuse to see him and do not take calls. He goes to your school so please report this to the school counsellor as well. It may be a good idea to take some time off school till this is settle. Don’t take this lightly…he is an abuser and is abusing you. No woman allows a man or anyone to treat her this way. Sue…good luck

That’s called abuse!! He’s abusing you!! Dump him. He’s not being good to you, as you said he is. He’s only good to you in public so that everyone will think that he is incapable of it. Just dump him. Or go to self defense classes and the next time he hits you, you fight back. And I don’t mean you hit him like a little girl, you hit him as hard as youy POSSIBLY can.

Someone trying to pressure you into sex when it’s not what you want isn’t ‘treating you good’!

He is acting at school - you know the real him. And apparently your friends have seen his true self as well.

Get away.

Will it hurt to be alone - yes. Can you turn off your love for him - no. Will you help yourself in the long run - most definately. Because a stronger person who can stand up for herself is very appealing.

There will be someone else - it might take awhile but you just don’t want to live a life where you are manipulated. You have a choice - consider your happiness and health. If he truly loves you - he would be considering that first as well.

And I didn’t mean to post my answer 3 times.

kick his A$$