How do I get my fiancee to have a baby with me?

heii at some point after I had my son my mother in law wanted me to get pregnant again just to have them at a close age but I just think that a baby needs sooo much attention for example a play with my boy for hours you know I help him learn so when he starts school in 4 years he’ll be smart and independent give your little girl all the time that you have now enjoy her teach her new things everyday you dont know how many things you can do to develop their skills (google it) … My advice is wait till your baby girl is bigger and you partner is ready because it really can ruin your relationship dont let that happen you have soo much time ahead of you strust me you wont regret it :)

I have two kids under the age of 2. I’m a married 21 year old with a stable job. And it is NOT easy. Every day is a struggle to get things done and give both of my children the attention they need and deserve. At the end of the day I’m so exhausted and stressed out. I would honestly wait if I were you.

Also, they’re is no telling you will have a boy. It’s a 50/50 chance.

You can’t really force him to have a baby with you. Are you sure this is the best time to have another baby. Consider what’s best for you and your fiance. Don’t you want your kids to have a good life? Be sure you have all your responsibilities covered and that you are prepared to bring another child into this world. Also you and your fiance should discuss whats the best solution. Best idea- talk it out and see what happens.

You can’t make him want to have another baby. If he’s not ready for another then he’s not ready. Don’t try to force him into it. One baby is hard enough especially if you guys are still teens. I personally can understand why he wouldn’t want another one right now. My advice is to just wait and focus on the child you have now and not have another one until you and your fiance know for sure that you can handle another. Besides you’ll have plenty of time for another baby in the future. You don’t have to rush things

you dont get him to or force him to because hes becomming a farther too its not just like you get everything, its him as well and hes clearly not ready for it if your not prepared to wait untill hes ready then I dont think you love him yes your the one having the baby but your in a relationship now, and your partner has a say in when he wants to be a father and if hes not ready, youll just have to wait and forget about what all your friends are doing you dont have a baby because everyone else is

your so young! why would you want to grow up so fast?! if you keep having children while your young, your gonna miss out on all of the fun things you do in college, in your twenties… dont have another baby, especially on purpose not now. please hun, wait. keep your childhood as long as you can, because youll miss it once your older and regret it deep down.theres plenty of more times that you could have a baby in the future

ok but do you even respect his opinions? because if you would you would also understand that HES not ready for another baby and if you love him, you just have to wait untill hes ready having one for yourself is just selfish you BOTH have to want it

You’re 17!! You have a whole life ahead of you! Like everyone else has said, don’t force him, besides, in the long run would you really want kids so close in age?

I don’t care bout the adult hood I got broody after 1 off his family ad 1 he knows how much it means to me