How do I get around my girlfriend bieng SO sexualy shy?

1 month and you’re already doing that stuff? Aren’t you moving a bit fast? Why are you trying to force this? I mean, I know you’re a guy(so am I) and I know that a male’s sex drive can be high(mine is extremely so, to the point of annoyance), but you shouldn’t be letting it control you. Are you only in this relationship for physical reasons? Because that’s what it sounds like. As agonizing as it was, me and my love didn’t kiss for two months. Before that, we had a few shy hugs and were holding hands in private. Now…well, you couldn’t tell. We’re completely opposite of celibate.

These things come with time. Trying to force the physical part will just ruin any potential relationship.

My girlfriend was just like that for the first month or two. Its going to take some time. And you dont want to push her. You need to let her no that she can always trust you. Let her no how much you like her/love her. She needs to be completely comfortable with you which sucks for us guys. But if you prove to her she can trust you maybe after alittle she might let you do something. Maybe let her touch you or something like that. Start with hugging kissing. The simple stuff and EVENTUALLY she will come around. Remember dont let your dic* control you.Need more help fun mail me:) -Reece