How do I fix things between me and my boyfriend?

I’ve been arguing with my boyfriend a lot over the past few days because he hurt me pretty bad. But I just made a huge mistake. A few minutes ago I got upset because I just got reminded of what he did and I blew up when he called me about it. When we were done basically yelling, I said “F*ck you. Go to hell.” And hung up. I regretted it as soon as I said it. When I called to appologize he didn’t answer and when I texted him he said that it hurt worse then when his ex girlfriend cheated on him… I would do anything to make it better. But I don’t know how. Please help me out here. What can I do to fix this?

Answer #1

Patience and time can fix most everything. Of course soft words and lots of listening and heart to heart communicating helps too. You two need to talk without getting angry. As soon as one of you gets angry, you’ve got to stop the conversation. There’s no point in discussing things when you’re seeing red. Give him some time to digest the hurtful words then ask him to talk about it again. You both seem to love eachother a lot so all you need to do is work on communicating better.

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