How do I deal with my over protective boyfriend?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year and 3 months. Things have got a bit too much lately. I lost my best friend a few weeks into the relationship, and she got pregnant and really needed me, except my boyfriend told me she was horrible and he hated me talking to her, so I stopped to save our relationship. The arguments came up a few times but I’ve only just looked into dealing with it. A few months ago, he got funny about me spending time on things like msn and a social site. He’d stalk me on a social site everyday and read all my messages on msn. Eventually, he told me he didnt like me going on it. So I cut back a bit, and spent more time with him. I’ve only got about 3 or 4 friends left now, and they’re hanging by threads. I never spend time with them or see them. About a month ago I deleted my a social site. I told my family and friends I deleted it because I never went on there. But secretly its because he hated it. I was talking to a friend on msn the other day, and when he asked me what I was doing, he had a major mood drop and told me I’d upset him by going on msn. Instinctively I turned it off. I didnt want to upset him. Im really scared of losing him, but its getting a bit too much…

Answer #1

As you seem to be scared of losing him, he seems to be scared of that to. But there comes a point where he can cross the line, and this time he did. Basically what he is doing is just preventhing you from living your life, from doing anathing a young perason with life would. Talk to him, let him know that what he is doing is not ok, and that you need a life out of his own too. If he loves you, and cares he will understand. As long as the fact that he dosent want to loose you does not blind him. If not then it might be hard, but you will have to end things with him no matter how much you love him. But that is only if he dosen’t enter in reason when you guys have talked and shared everything. Because the things that he wont let you do will keep increasing and increasing.

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