how do I convince my parents to let me get a cell phone?

im 13…and all of my friends have there own phones..I have a boyfriend and its really annoying when he calls and my sister or mom listens to our conversations..how do I convince my parents to let me get my own phone?! I already told them that I would do chores and stuff around the house in order to get minutes..but how do I convince them to let me get one?!

Answer #1

You first gotta show them you are responssble enough to have one. Like getting good grades, doing extra work around the house with out being asked, and even not breaking or loosing anything, also not getting into trouble too. Another thing that works is telling them that it would be safe if you got one incase of a emergancy. Or you could ask for one for christmas or yer birthday. And if you pay for some of it like I pay for texting wich is 10$ a month for unlimited. Im 13 too so I hope this helps!!

Answer #2

hey guys I’m 13 too and well I have to share one with my older sister who’s 15 and she’s always telling everyone it HER phone and even though it has texting she deletes my messages and when she gets mad at me she texts MY friends really stupid stuff…it suxs and I’ve tried to talk my parents into gettting us our own phone but our family is kinda poor especially after christmas so I’m thinking about just buying my own phone…but then how would that work???

Answer #3

You know something - your mom didn’t have a cellphone when she was your age…I didn’t have one, either…my 16 year old doesn’t even have one.

A cellphone is a privilege, and believe it or not, your parents don’t have to get you one.

You can try using the same argument - you’ll do chores to ‘earn’ it, but don’t push your luck…if your parents don’t think you need one, well, you know what? They’re right.

Answer #4

I would go buy a go phone from walmart, or somewhere, with your own money, and there you go :P

hope I helped, if you got any question about it comment me hunn

Answer #5

Try explaining to your parents that you think it’s important to have your privacy and it can also be helpful in ensuring your safe when not with you parents, make sure you stay calm when disscussing this isssue with your parents as it is obviously something you all feel strongly about. Make sure you listen and take into consideration your parents points and ensure they know that you understand how they feel. You seem quite willing to do chores etc. so maybe suggest that you will save you money in order to buy your own phone or ask for it as a birthday/christmas present. Hope I’ve helped x

Answer #6

Tell your parents its important in case of an emergency! which it is.. I mean I know when I have children they will get theirs when they are 10!! You never know when somthing bad might happen.

If you do get one.. remember whos paying for it, and not to take advantage of it.

Answer #7

omg im 13 to.I have my own phone.my mom would always listen to my conversations.it was annoying.just tell your mom that all your friends have one and you want one.

Answer #8

tell your parents that it would help you guys communicate. like if you need them to pick you up! :) please answer my question too…how do I get texting??!?!?my parents wouldnt use it if I had it so this doesnt work!

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