How do I ask my mother if I can be put on Birth Control?

Planned parenthood can help you get birth control, sometimes for free, without parental consent.

Talk to your mom about the discomfort from your period. Explain that it is a hindrance but since it can be helped, you would like to look into your options. Tell her you have been having sex with your boyfriend and you understand that it is not a responsible thing to do so you would like to take any precations that you can. Explain that you care about your boyfriend and you are doing this because you want to but you know you are not ready for a child and that it would be unfair for you to bring a child into the world when you are so unprepared to take care of it.

I’m sure thats not what you want to hear because most girls (and guys) want to say they are in love and they are responsible and they know everything, I’ve been there, I feel ya. However if you’ve already asked and she said no, you need to take another route because obviously your ideas aren’t working (hence why you’re asking us) And dont get huffy bc I said its irresponsible, because it IS. I am 20 years old and my love and I are not ready for children, therefore having sex with him is being irresponsible, but I do it anyways. I just try to be as careful as possible. I dont agree with your decision to start being sexually active so young because you have your entire life to enjoy sex. I started young, but I had no choice and now I wish so badly that it could have waited. Anyways, I know with my mom trying what I’m mentioned above worked because I showed her I was trying to be responsible by admittng I wasnt mature enough to have a child.

Sorry to be so brash. I suppose its a touchy subject. Hope I helped a little though.

Cheers!