How come people are so mean sometimes...and what do I do about it?

And how can I help others who feel this way sometimes.

Thank you Volleeit18

well, lads can be like that. its just the way they are sometimes. he probs felt because you said one bad thing, he had to say the most horrible thing and make it 10 times worse. I have older brothers, and they even admitted..they know the best way to upset a girl is to call them “ugly”, but who is this lad or any other person to decide what beautiful and ugly is? people have different opions and what they are attracted to. I recon in every girls life they have been called ugly before unfortunately. but if your comfortable and confident with who you are, dont let one person get you down. hes not worth it. dont worry about it. all the best

x

I know what you mean. think of it this way: yur not his biggest fan, so his opinion of you should mean nothing to you. why should what some random loser says to you affect how you think of yourself? he’s nothing to you. it’s the opinions of those closest to you that should matter the most. that’s how I look at things. which would hurt more?: if your worst enemie called you, let’s say fat, or if your best friend did?
good luck and fun mail me if you need anything else:)

“Comments about haha me again Posted by mh2m 3 months ago.

aww your soo cute and pretty”

proof. I just had a quick look through your pics, and you are SO not ugly… I swear I wish I looked like you so bad! I’m definitely not pretty, or skinny. and it seriously really hurts me to be around my friends- they’re all so gorgeous you shouldn’t have this problem because you ARE gorgeous, just because some prick tells you otherwise, doesn’t mean he’s telling the truth braces are a temporary thing…think, after you get them, you’re gunna have lovely teeth. you will never have a problem with them again help people by telling them how amazing they are. to be told that face to face would be the most amazing thing ever to hear. IGNORE HIM! love ally