How can you have sex that doesn't involve romance?

JUST GO FOR A 3-SOME… lollol maybe it wud be betta if you did that bc you can be gettin sum but while he knocks in the romantic pieces… lollol hope that was some short but helpful advice

I thank you for the help but it doesnt quite target the root of the problem. I know my way around a girls body so that’s not an issue, my problem is that sex in a relationship and sex with a friend are very different things due to the lack of romance and such between the two individuals so I’m wondering what I could do to make her really enjoy it but not spark any sort of lovey dovey stuff like you would have with your partner. Any personal experiences are quite welcome as well.

well.. im going to trust what you said and not speculate on the situation between the 3 of you. first off, ill explain how it works differently for girls and guys when it comes to sex. for a guy, mostly a look or a touch can turn them on. once that happens, they can stick their little cadilac anywhere and like it. a girl is different. girls can get more turned on than guys (more often than you may think) but their grage needs to be prepared before you can put the car in it. they need touchy feely stuff for it to happen. this wont just happen by kissing and lovey dovey stuff. this will happen (and varry in how fast it happens) by the talent of your hands. ill give you a little rundown of a good method of going about this. because you dont want a romantic thing, try to keep the kissing to a minimum. talk to her before-hand (not the day of either) and ask her how she feels about kissing. maybe you coul start off by kissing her. quickly remove her shirt and bra and start kissing and caressing her breasts. she will probably start showing some response (moaning, fidgeting, rubbing your body, putting her head back etc…). eventually move your hands slowly down her stomach (feels good and teases depending on how close you get to her pant line) do this will still kissing and sucking her breasts. you have a few options at this point. you could either start rubbing her inner thigh and gently glide your hands over her vag. option 2 is you could (from the stomach) move your hands directly under her pants to the outside of her panties and rub her vag. both 1 and 2 will eventually lead to 3 (depending on how she reacts to them. do whatever you get a better reaction from). options three is putting your hands underneath her panties and rubber her clit (if you dont know what that is go to collegesexadvice.com… it will be explained there and it is a safe site). you may also have to remove her pants for this because it can be hard to move your hand around if she is wearing tight pants. if she feels very nervous and you’re not sure if you’re doing something right, keep asking her if she likes what you’re doing. if she seems to be enjoying it, then power to you. eventually her pants must be removed. from that point, you can either move your head down to her vag and start eating her out (go to collegesexadvice for instructions on that). or you can continue to rub her clit. eventually move your fingers into her vag. (start with one finger an then add up to 3 fingers [incase she is not very stretched] based on her response). you should try to find her g-spot (collegesexadvice) because if you do, you will definately see her responding to that. after she is really really turned on and you hear her moaning a lot, ask her if she is ready for sex. if she is, strap your seatbelt on, and go park your caddy in her garage. (use protection XD) overall tips and advice, I would definately take controll. girls mostly like to feel like they are being taken by someone (be gentle.. nothing too kinky) also, make sure you are moving your hands on her body a lot. do not stop. make her feel something constantly. if you are too nervous, just ask her about whatever you’re not sure of. the most important thing is to do what she likes best. you can tell what she likes based on how she reacts to whatever you’re doing. good luck! =)