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Why doesn't my boyfriend want sex?

Im 22 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. I am always wanting sex..ALWAYS. My sex drive is insane. But he NEVER wants it. He always watches porn instead. I dont care but he watches it like every day and we have sex maybe once a month if Im lucky. Im a bigger girl but he got with me like this. Is it hes disgusted by me? What is going on?

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Answer #1

missyaya is right. I was having a similar problem and we started watching porn together and it helped our sex life a lot. Gradually he stopped having to watch it while he and I were having sex. He does still watch it from time to time but at least now we have our sex life back :)

Answer #2

Another point of view. Are you nagging and bossy? Are you always telling him what to do or complaining why he doesn’t do anything? That is a major sex drive killer because he will see you as his mother. Also do not compare yourself to what he is looking at online, it has nothing to do with how you look but more with passive agressive behaviour.

Answer #3

He was probably on porn long before he was with you. Porn is addicting in nature(contrary to popular opinion). It has the same effect on the human brain as many drugs, which can effect sex drive, mood, and personality.

You need to have a SERIOUS talk with him. If you plan on maintaining a long-term relationship, he needs to get off this stuff. It destroys relationships. I would know.

Answer #4

bring porn into your sex life… be a sexy big gal that he likes.

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