How can my boyfriend tell my mom im pregnant

estela93… look I was 15 and my mom basically had control over my life. its hard being in a predicament like that. its really overwhelming. and yes I do I have a heart. I regret it very much but its not something I am going to dwell over because its not something I can take back. however my boyfriend is indead very supportive! he loves the baby already and its not even here yet.

but really.. I need some help on how to tell this lady!!! ANYONE???

I know you’re a girl, but have some cement in your tea and harden up. Tell your mom YOURSELF, or WITH your boyfriend. Getting him to tell her is a pretty chicken thing to do, and he’s not his daughter. She would want her daughter to tell her. Not a guy who knocked up her daughter.

You have to decide what to do with the pregnancy. If you’re going to abort it, then you don’t have to tell her anyway. If you’re planning on keeping it (and paying for it, all the hospital bills, baby expenses and taking care of it 24/7), then be an adult and tell her how you’re planning on taking care of it on your own. Can you take care of a baby while juggling a job and finished tertiary education after high school?

You just have to tell her; one way or another. Sometimes you just can’t build up enough courage. Having been there once you know what to expect so don’t freak out over what’s going to happen. You know no contraceptive method is 100%. You accepted these consequences when you had sex with the guy. Now it’s time to step up and be strong.

Be prepared to accept responsibility and have a plan for doing so. Consider adoption if you don’t think you can care for the baby. There are a lot of people out there looking for a baby. I know two very good couples right now that can’t have children of their own. There are a lot of couples like that out there.

Set mom down and just tell her. (Dad, too, if there is one.) Over thinking her acrid response will only make it more difficult. Try a comfortable room and a comfortable seat on a day when her stress level is usually the lowest. You (AND HE) should tell her. It’s something you have to do, so take a deep breath and just do it.