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How can I tell my boyfrinds cheating on me?

Hi im in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend doesnt anwser my txt messages and phone calls as he use to we have been going out for like 3 days and yea. It like when I txt him in like call me than like 20 min later he like dont so I don’t know if thts a sign that hes cheating on me. Help!!!

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Answer #1

This question is flawed form the outset. You can never, ever (repeat) ever KNOW that your partner is not cheating on you unless you install a camera in their forehead. You have to have trust that they aren’t, and trust might be the most important cornerstone of any solid relationship. If you don’t trust your boyfriend that he’s not cheating, you have much bigger issues to worry about than how long it takes him to answer a text. If he’s never given you any indications that he’s cheating other than the length of time he takes to call you, the problem lies with you, not him. Why are you so mistrustful? Were you cheated on before? Are you ready to be in a relationship at all if it means you have to relinquish control?

Answer #2

umm you have been going out for 3 days and he is already doing that?? where did you meet him?? btw were was he that he couldnt even text you back >>something that takes like 5 secnds.. ??? look long distance relationships mostly turn out to be of 3-4 peole. for either or both start cheating on each other ! and I agree with that shouldnt over txt him or call him>> dont tell him you love him unless he says it first. and if he is saying ily already he doesnt truly mean it (probably)>> let him approach you>> text you / call you!! let him worry for a change!!! if he doesnt it means he doesnt care about you!!

and btw in a relationship remember there are always the 3month period were everything is perfect after that is when problems should occur. if you have problems with your man within the first 3 months leave him. he is not that into you!!

Answer #3

If he is calling you 20 mins later I dont think he is cheating on you. However, if you keep txting him, you are going to drive him crazy. Stop calling and txting him for awhile and then he should contact you eventually if he really cares.

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