Should I tell my crush that I think he's being cheated on?

man ok so I’m like hopelessly in love with this guy, sean but he’s going out with my ex-best friend but the only reason she went after him in the first place is because she found out that I liked him and so now they are going out but she lies to him all the time and I’m pretty sure she’s cheating on him but I dont have any proof and I’m scared to tell him because he knows I like him and he might think that I’m trying to break them up. what should I do?

Answer #1

I know this will be hard but - don’t do anything. Let him find out in his own time that she’s lying to him and possibly cheating on him - don’t get involved. When its over between them, then thats when you show him that you’re the caring friend who could potentially also be a girlfriend. But, you don’t want to get in the way of them, because he’ll just think ill of you… and if it did lead to them breaking up, he’ll probably blame you, or your ex-best friend will tell him nasty rumours about you. So best to stay clear for now, as hard as that may be.

Answer #2

I disagree with ‘danbob’. Of course, don’t get heavily involved, but if you care for this guy…or girl…or whoever…you should let them know! I know that if anyone cheated on who I liked I would die inside.

Maybe just mention your suspicions, once he responds, dont go any further unless he keeps the subject going by conversing with you about it. don’t linger on about it, just lay it down, and hope for the best.

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