How can I sleep over his house?

While you live in your mother’s house you have to live by your mother’s rules.

And smarsh0…WTF is up with you? I happen to agree with ichibanarky on this…as do a lot of other people.

I know how, at the age of ‘almost 16’, you think you’re all grown up and know everything, and I’m sorry to burst your bubble, but you still have to listen to your mother.

She said it’s inappropriate - I agree with her.

Of course she needs to know where you are and what you’re doing - that’s her job…she’s responsible for you.

The fact that you don’t understand that, alone, shows that you haven’t reached the level of maturity that would warrant you sleeping at a boy’s house.

ohkay so I’m not gonna take sides like the rest of them r.

I’m the same age as yu and I wunted to do that too.

I have two older brothers that drive and can do whatever they please so I think that this isn’t fair.

my story:

one day me and my brothers were like we finna go to a party and we were allowed to go.

but we rele didn’t go..

mi brother dropped me off at mi dudes house and then he took mi other brother to his gal house,, then he went to his gal house..

I stayyed over there until about 3o’clock and I decided that was as close as spending the night I was going to get.. and most adults would think yu just wunta go over there and have sex.

if yu just go and talk for a longg time your mom might get more lenient [idont know how to spell that).

by the wayy we did have sex,, and I guess that’s yy mi mama didn’t wunt me over there so late.

she knows that if his parents go to slp too there’s more of a chance for yu and him to get away with any thing.

I’m not on any ones side,, but yu shuld makee the right choice by not going or have funn by finding another wayy there.

I hate to say it, but I also agree with your mother. I do understand your point of view and I do understand why you want to sleep over, but as ichibanarky said, your mother is responsible for you and therefore has every reason in the world to tell you no. She is, after all, doing what is best for you. And at 16, I say being out until midnight is even a privilege. When I was 16, my parents didn’t let me out past 10:30pm.

It’s going to suck a bit, but stick it out and show your mom that you’re responsible and that she can trust you. She will ease up within time.

wait till youre of legal age to do what you want LEGALLY! I was 18 before my boyfriend of 5 years was allowed to sleep over. dont worry yourself with sex, until you are mature enough to control your sex life. right now your mother is controlling it…there is nothing you can do but defy her, and I seriously dont recommend that, and its very degrading to your mother and/or father, considering they taught you your values

ichinbanarky wtf.. Okay basiclly, im gonna say it now.. your only 15 so your not actully of legal age to have sex yet and that is what will be going through your mums mind,, if you are going to have sex I would think long and hard about it because you might regret it a lot once you have done it. Anyways, when I was 14 I just asked my mum if I could sleep round my boyfriends house, amazingly she let me, however she spoke to his mum first just to clear how old I was and what not, you have to take into consideration that your mum IS respoisble for you and I agree on that but, to start off with you need to make her trust you. lying to her will only make things a lot worse if she finds out. I have been in your posistion and I understand how frustrating it is, give it time and she will start letting you go to do more things as long as you show her your responsible.