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hello…been in a couple pretty hurtful relationships in the past. I am 38 with 3 kids. Been divorced for 9 years and after 8 years my ex is now fighting for our two older kids, my littlest ones dad left when I was preg. and has seen “our” son only 2x ever(he is 4)always have a fear he will show up one day and try to take him. I have met a a couple people who really want to date and the thought of it to me is so scary. I mean, I want that family again, I want a relationship, but when I meet someone that is everything I could imagine a person being, I’m numb. I am just not ready and for the 1st time I have absolutely no emotion or feeling in going out or dating and it scares me. What can I do to get over this?

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its like riding a bike for the first time.go for it if it works then you are in luck if not then its going to hurt. you must just let go and thy

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