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How can I prove to her im not a total a**?

She thinks im an a beacuse a few days ago we were hanging out and my friend dared me to put my hand up her skirt and I did. (I no im an a but im not all the time) and later started to relize how much I realy loved her. (its my girlfriend btw) But now she is mad at me and I dont no how to make it up to her.I already apologized about 20 times but she wont forgive me. How can I prove to her im not a total a**?

And please dont just call me an a** because I already no

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Answer #1

No one is asking you to beat yourself up by calling yourself a name. Totally pointless thing to do. If you really are an a then well that’s who you are, that’s what made you do it, and that’s the end of the story. What’s the point in that? Instead of calling yourself names, tell her you screwed up. Tell her you made a mistake and it was highly disrespectful. That it wont happen again. You were behaving like an a perhaps. But if it is who you are, that means that it will just happen again, because that is who you are. Can you see the difference here? One is a stupid action. The other is just a stupid person. No one can do anything if you’re a stupid person, because that’s just who you are. If you committed a stupid action, you can NOT do it again in the future. Try using that argument… And stop calling yourself names. If, at worst, she doesnt take you back, then you’ve learnt an important, if costly lesson.

Answer #2

forget about her. You’re not worth her time. That’s such a disrespectful thing to do!!! If she doesn’t forgive you, then just forget about her. If you’re brave enough, and really loveee her like you say, dont just say it. prove it to her. Right now she’s too hurt. Let time heal some things. That’s the best advice you can get.

Answer #3

ty I no im an a and I put my hand up my girlfriend skirt again I NO IM AN A

Answer #4

right well your gonna have to get her alone and sit her down and tell her your deeply sorry. and your gonna have to admit your an a$$. sorry but thats how it goes im afraid. she was probably embarassed, so your gona have to make it up to her. take it like a man kiddo.

Answer #5

Sorry, did you put your hand up your friend’s skirt (so basically you just touched some other female in front of her?) or did you put your hand up your girlfriend’s skirt (which means you just disrespected her in front of a whole bunch of people?)

And excuse me, you later came to realize you loved her? so it would have been ok if you realized you didnt love her? Sorry, but I’m going with your girlfriend on this one. You dont appear to have realized exactly what you did wrong. If you do, I suggest you let her know. Then I suggest you give her some space to cool off, and then make it up to her. In a big way.

Answer #6

If you apologized that much times and she never do anything then you should show her your sorry by your actions you should tak her on a really romantic date to show that you care and maybe you might get forgiven if not hen buy or make her a present

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