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How can I protect her from a weird guy?

How can I protect my bff from a really wierd guy?They went out 3 times. I have really bad feelings about him. I think hes going to hurt her and pressure her. he isnt a virgin. she is. she says he makes her happy.they say they love eachother. but when ever they are together, he his all up behind her or kissin her or smackin her butt be we are only in 7th grade. he gives me a chill down my back. I know that if he makes her happy I should be happy. but how can I be happy when I get that feelin about him? I dont even want to be around him. how can I help her??? please help me!!!

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Answer #1

You have three options. (that I can think of)

  1. Tell her how you feel. Watch her get hurt as she won’t listen to you. Be her shoulder to cry on later. Don’t rub it in.
  2. Tell her parents what a creep this guy is.
  3. Tell a guidance councilor and let him/her tell her parents or talk to her about it.
Answer #2

u are definately right. if you r in 7th grade, he should be a virgin and if he is acting this way with yur friend, then he had bad intentions. you guys are too young 2 be doing these things. I’m going to be 14 in a few hours and I haven’t even kissed a guy yet. you should tell yur friend how you feel and list all of the facts that you have presented in yur question. when I was in 7th grade, some kids were all over each other, but not as much as in 8th grade. if this is happening 2 yur friend now, think of how she will be effected if you dont say anything now and you guys get into high school. watch out for yur friend, yur getting weird vibes from this guy and if he is only in 7th grade and has lost his virginity, think about how old he was when he did. yur friend will thank you one day.

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