How can I make him care again?

I dont think your kids should be an excuse to not leave, my mom left my dad 10 years ago, with my older brother who was 12 back then, my younger sister who was 4, and me 8 years old. she managed to take care of use, and support us.. if you feel like you want to try then try to seduce him, make him want you.. how ? get a makeover.. :D go shopping for a new outfitt, lingerie… cook for him, and plan an evening for just the two of you, your kids can sleeep over a friends house..

try to have a word with him, tell him how you feel and that you want to work things out.

I dont want to sound negative, but I doubt your husband was faithful to you in FL, he drinks and “passes out in the bed, with a girl” what would they be doing next to a bed ? hunny your gulible if you believe that sorry excuse.. he knoows you love him and he takes it for granted

in my opinion I would leave him, but in the end its not my I]opinion that matters most its yours do what you feel is right, if you feel that your 2 kids should have this image of there parents ..