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How can I get rid of my stepdad? I CANT STAND HIM! We only get along sometimes.He is nice to me when my mom is around but, hes mean when shes not. He makes me mad so sometimes I yell at him but I get grounded. How do I learn to ignore him? I WANT HIM GONE!
well today my mom got married I hate the guy so today is step one in how to get rid of my step dad and trust me I will he is the worst guy for her in the world pluse he has like 5 kids and one of them is a big baby just as much as he is. The things I did while thay were together were I let my mom know every day at least 10 times a day how much I did not like him and I also let my my step dad me and my brother call him the devil but I also let him no how much I did not like him and I turned my moms family against him but that abusivley did not work but try it so now I will try the big stuff and wait for the divorce papers to be handed out so once he is gone I will tell you exactly how I did it... o and for the people saying just let your mom be happy NO its not like that she had you so now she has to make you both happy and also if you are reading this and your mom has not married her loser yet but is going to refuse to go to the weding my moms weding is going on right now and im not thare im sitting here talking to yall and she has called me about 6 times already so I hope that this helped and the one thing I think to do is let your mom and her husband know how much you dont like them after all it is a free country
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Emm im 15 years old and I've had like 6 step dads Between the 6 of them there is one who keeps crashing into our life and sucks the blood out my family(he doesn't work does drugs and loads of other stuff). Well this has happened 3 times. They have broken up horribly and then he tricks my mom into taking him back
So the situation im in is this one....he's back a fourth time. Normally I wouldn't allow this to happen but right now im off country with my real dad just for the summer And (pardon my french) this motherfucker took the opportunity to trick my mom once again while I was and obviously im pissed at this and I confront my mom
And she has abandoned all reason.... Well the thing is she basically kicked me out of my home to my grandmother so that she can mantain that bloodsucker .... Of course she tried to get me to live with him and her but I gave an ultimatum (either he moves out or I do) and yeah that's my situation......so I wanted to ask what should I do? How do I get my mom to realize the kind of man he is once again?
Emm im 15 years old and I've had like 6 step dads Between the 6 of them there is one who keeps crashing into our life and sucks the blood out my family(he doesn't work does drugs and loads of other stuff). Well this has happened 3 times. They have broken up horribly and then he tricks my mom into taking him back
So the situation im in is this one....he's back a fourth time. Normally I wouldn't allow this to happen but right now im off country with my real dad just for the summer And (pardon my french) this motherfucker took the opportunity to trick my mom once again while I was and obviously im pissed at this and I confront my mom
And she has abandoned all reason.... Well the thing is she basically kicked me out of my home to my grandmother so that she can mantain that bloodsucker .... Of course she tried to get me to live with him and her but I gave an ultimatum (either he moves out or I do) and yeah that's my situation......so I wanted to ask what should I do? How do I get my mom to realize the kind of man he is once again?
Omg This is like the question I have been waitin for .. I absoloutely H-A-T-E my stepdad hes not even my stepdad hes some dude my mom has been engaged 2 for like 7 years ... hes an alcholic and when he is drunk he has serious problems he friggen attacks me and before I had a black eye from him but somehow my mom still likes him .. she talks about if she gathers enough money me n her are goin to move into an apartment ( I live in giant house with a pool sauna and whirpool in the basement ) so what a change but who cares . When hes not drunk hes kinda nice .. notice the word '' kinda '' . anyway I have advice for you get him back cuz no matter what you do I dont think that ur gonna get rid of him .. just talkin from my experience . Anyway say lies about him and what he does like calls you names and says mean stuff about you , tell this to your mom . Now if your mom is nice she'll kick him out lol hope you have fun and listen to the best advice up here :P
My step dad is pretty much the same, when my real dad buys me thing he acts like he owns it, he says everything belongs to him untill I move out. I love my mom, she seems pretty happy, I tell her everything that goes on between me and him, she doesnt like it at all, but she says my attitude makes it worse for me and she is right. What you should do is try and keep a good attitude, make sure you tell your mom the truth(ALWAYS), you dont have to me nice to you step dad but at least have a good attitude to prove to your mom you tried. If this doesnt help them I have no idea...lol
Good luck and best wishes<3
honey I can tell you from experience unfortunately there is no way to get rid of a step dad... my step dad has been makin sexual advances towards me for at least 3 years now and I have told my mom about everytime and she is still with that bastard -pardon my french- and I have no way of supporting myself completely yet so all I do is lock myself in my room whenever my mom is takin a bath or sleepin and I am only in the same room when mom is there... if she leaves I leave too and I just hope and pray for the day I have enough money to get out of here and never look back till the day he finally is gone
OH MY GOSH I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM MY MOM HAS BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES! Once with my older sisters dad then my REAL dad then my step dad,when my moms around he sucks up to her and me and stuff, but when my mom is gone he is so mean! A couple days ago my BFF came over and we went to his office in the basement and there was some drugs in there! Also my older sister is always at collage and shes really nice to me but when shes home my dad is really mean to her too. My older sister HATES him she calls him creeper, I need help! But im gonna get back at him big some day I hope.
if he's really a bad guy then your mom should see it but if she's to inlove with the creep then you have to do something to make her see what a jackass he really is like save up ALLOT of money and then buy a video recorder and hide it somewere and when you and him are alone, prove he's an asshole by recording it! i think i'll try that, my step dads a fat, old, jobless, a-hole, and he drinks alll the time. my mom never got drunk when he wasn't around and there always yelling at each other. well if my idea cant help then im sorry. bye bye!
I know how u feel I have the same problem!! Like before my mom and my dad got divorced she would always hide in her room and pretend she was sleeping so nobody would bother her but she would just talk on the phone for hours and hours! In ur case he's mean to you I think you, your mom, and ur stepdad should sit together at the dinner table and tell your mom about it if he denies it talk to someone u trust like a family member or something. Just don't let him do that!! I hope my advice works!
Maybe set up a hidden camera to document how he treats you, then show your Mom....keep your attitude in check - don't yell ! - just makes matters worse (entices confrontation)....I know it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but it is absolutely true: "This too will pass" and you're on your way to a bright future.
Good Luck and God Bless !!
same here my step dad is a real jerk to, he gets drunk a lot and flirts with people in front of my mm, but I think the best thing to do is avoid him and try to break him and your mom up any way you can like telling your mom that its either him or you, most likely your moms loves you to much to see you walk out of her life
yh same here!! i kno how u feel like...wht i did is i sat him n my mom down n tlked everything thru! it was rly awkward cause im not close with my stepdad at all! but ull get ovr it faster n develope a btr relationship with him!!
Good luck..hope its works out..hope i helped!!
this may sound stupid but as long as he makes your mum happy you shood be your mum likes him and you shouldnt ruine her relationship if he relly is that bad then your mum eventurly find out and take action but you sholdnt ruine your mums life
my stepdad is a total cunt he thinks he can say and do whatever he likes, he also never lets anyone in the house and is CONSTANLEY grumpy as fuck. dunno what his problem is anyway seems to take enough fucking coke though!
I try explaining to my mom but she doesnt listen he sags his pants he never goes to church hae calls me names and he comes home late at night and he doesnt like for me to have fun
same here he is a jeark sometimes my mom also they fight all the time and i sick of it and i cant stand it i cry every night.
I have the same thing too but 'he is more striker hes bald and ugly its annoying seeing his face when he talks to meee
get a diary and write all the bad things about him then burn it and nip it in the bud.keep doin this till you are happy
keep pissing him off and lie to your mom or say you saw him with another lady but you got to cry while saying it
well i have the same problem and well i think you should tell your mum how you feel thats the best soloution.
i really am in the same boat you are in so if you find a getting rid of step dads anonamous club let me know
same with mine im at the point to hit him across the head with 50 pound sleudge HAmmer
wow.. thats a good question.. message me when u get a good answer, cause i have none
I FEEL your PAIN!!!
