How can I get proof that he's lying?

Anyone who gets their phone bill sent to their mothers is hiding something. Originally my partner kept his phone on silent, didn’t answer calls in front of me. I was hurt and i told him to stop it. I had some gut instincts, confronted him and now i can answer his phone if it rings. He knows he nearly lost me over it. And yes, i do believe he was hiding something from me but it was earlier on in our relationship. He now lives with me, we are moving to a new town in to a new home and he’s told me he loves me. My confrontation could have ended it all but he realised what he was going to lose.

You can’t live like this, he needs confronting. He is acting like a man with something to hide. You may not like his answer but at least you won’t be with a man who’s lying and cheating on you. Better to be happy alone then unhappy together. Either way it will be a weight of your mind. You deserve better.

Good Luck.

Dear edgeofreason7817, Why are you looking for proof he slept with this woman? He deletes his calls, he has his bills sent to his mothers…this is not normal behaviour. Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. Are you afraid to ask him or ask his if he cheating or are you afraid of the answer? I suggest you make an appointment with a counsellor so you can discuss your fears and ways to deal with them. If he admits to his infidelity you will definitely need to speak with someone about it all. So forget about the proof and trust your instincts…it is time to ask some questions. Sue…good luck

You can hire a P.I.