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How can I get over my friend lying about cancer?

ok so my frnd said she had cancer nd she lied every1 was really angry with her for lying but now they have forgivin her but i cant i jst cant nd now she is bringing up things that happended in the past trying to make me feel bad! my uncle recently passed away from cancer maybe thats the reason i dislike her so much but i jst want to get over it for the sake of my other frnds but i jst cant! any suggestions on how to get over it? or if i should even get over it? PLZ PLZ PLZ help

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Answer #1

Well if she did that its probobly b/c she wanted attention. some people do that when they feel lonley. but if she bringin up stuff in the past to make you feel bad then she aint know real friend and you just need to let her go. and eventually she will see what a good friend she lost. real talk!!!

Answer #2

Dear dani007, Sometimes we can forgive but never forget. What was the reason for doing what she did? Your friend is obviously needing a counsellor. She isn’t well and could be very ill mentally. This is not something someone does just for kicks. Speak with her parents and let them know she need help ASAP. The same reasons that she told everyone she was sick may be the same reasons she may try to harm herself. She needs to be helped NOW. No you don’t have to ever forget what she did, but keep in mind she is sick mentally and still needs a lot of help. Sue…good luck

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