How can I convince my mom to let guys in my room?

why in your room?? you don’t need them there.

tell her you will leave the door wide open and the lights on. if she doesnt trust you she probably has some trust problems. if your guy friends are really friends they will understand. that sucks though :(

My mom won’t let boys in my room either. It’s actually really dumb, but I think I’m allowed if I keep the door open and my mom is right in the other room. But then it is just weird because I know whatever I say my mom is going to listening in. So I pretty much don’t even bring boys into my house. And end up just sneaking over the guys house where we’re all alone. So my mom could have just let us in my room and nothing would have happened but since she didn’t trust me I end up just going over the guys house. But whatever. It’s her decision. Anyway, just try to convince your mom that you’re not going to do anything, plus the fact if you have another girl there nothing is going to happen.

Your mom is just trying to protect you…I know I came from an overprotective family. Just because you tell her you will not do anything doesnt mean she doesnt trust you, she just may not trust the guys,and it is natural for her to have trust issues. It sounds like maybe she will never trust you, but she will. If your guy friends are really your friends, then it won’t matter whether they can come into your room or not, spend time with them outside or in another room instead.