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How can I ask my mom to not come to college graduation?

My mom is a “recovering” alcoholic and a very selfish person. She has ruined every major event in my life including my wedding almost three years ago. She talks about herself ALL the time and never asks about anybody else. She is just one of those people who thinks that she has suffered more, loved more, lived more, etc. than anyone. I am graduating college in a few months and I really don’t want her there (she lives in a different state). This is the last big event in my young adult life and I want it to be MINE, not HERS. Would I be wrong to ask her not to come? And if I have to let her come, can I request that she stay in a motel and not my house?

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Answer #1

Tell her the truth, tell her you dont want her there unless she turns it down a bit, because, no offence,but it is quite evil saying your mum cant come to her own sons graduation, or what about you ask a family member or a friend to keep her occupied? Good luck ;) x

Answer #2

Just tell her the truth, she has to see what she has done to you and also that you want her own life. Or meaby put her some conditions and make things your way, this is your moment make it yours…

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer #3

No, it is not wrong. Actions have consequences. If you dont want her there, just tell her.

Answer #4

Tell her its on a different date than it is. Thats what I would do.

Answer #5

Congratulations on that upcoming graduation!!! Tell her nothing. Give a wrong date. This IS your day to SHINE!!!

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