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How am I expected to react to my bitch of a mum when she gets arsey? She screams like a banshi and doesnt let me get a word in edgeways…She barges into my bedroom literally in nothing but her knickers…no bra!! Screams at me calls me every name under the sun, blames me for her being ‘depressed’ , tells me ‘ f*ck off im not listening to you!’ when I try saying a single word…and then she walks out…and then comes back for more minutes later…shes impossible! shes the most awkward human being…if you can call her that…I have ever known! Even her own friends dont like her much nowadays…I just wanna punch her right in her face whenever she starts on me, she threatened to ring the police on me a few times when I started fighting back (when she got physical) … what else can I do? I refuse to be bullied by that beast! HELP PLEASE! x

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Answer #1

Katie, wow, that’s similar to how my mom was with me, I haven’t spoken with my mom in about 20 years, but I’m now a mom with 3 daughters. My daughters, who are 22 and twins that are 20, do still speak to me. When I realize that not all mothers where as mine was I started looking for other adults who I could trust to help me, including a conselor. I suggest you either talk to a teacher or couselor at school or to your religous advisor and maybe find someone who can help you find a safe place to live. I’m not saying that you can’t have a relationship with your mum BUT she needs help and if she is not willing to get help for herself you need to get help for yourself. I decided that I would end the cycle of abuse, and did it with lots of help from counseling. I wish you the best of luck, take care and GOD bless. BTW all 3 of my girls list me as one of their heros on their facebooks, which tells me couseling helped.

Answer #2

I have no other family, none near by, or that care tbh. my dad is a no go, im trying to get out but there is no where to go currently:) thanks for your advice guys x

Answer #3

tsktsk… I pity u.. having such kind of parent is really a NIGHTMARE,, just run away from home so you wont see your monster mom ever again.. (just a suggestion,, lol)

Answer #4

Well… If you don’t feel good there and if she is just making you depressed then she is abusing you phisoaligicly… And meaby you can be whit onother family member… I know how you feel, whit a mom like that it can be really hard to move on but I mean you can do it, there is people othere that can… So try and going whit your dad or another family member that treats you whit respect… at least you can get out of there… do it till she realizes how wrong she is doing…

GOOD LUCK:)

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