How to keep him interested in me?

me and my boyfriend are slipping too and I wish I kne what it is too to make it come bak but I dont know all I can say is theres so many guys out there that can still make your heart thump maybe even more then the guy that your with so dont give up theres still a light at the end of the tunnel

what a shame I no the feeling very well but like sophie says you just cant make him love you again if he does nt want t .talk t him if that does nt work split straight away so you dont get hurt any more than you already are or believe me it ll will destroy you later down the line

is the feelings arnt there any more then there not there, a trick in bed isnt going to make them feelings reapper, in my oppinon I think you should have a talk with him and ask him if he wants to be with you,if the feelings arnt there anymore he shouldnt really be with you because is my eyes thats stringing you along, like I said have a good talk to him and find out why hes falin out of love with you, good luck

 x sophie-lea x

Why are you acting so desperate, as to want to keep someone who is only interested in one thing? Sex is not going to bring a relationship back, nor will it keep one together! Dont you know that boys can have sex without getting their feelings involved, unlike girls? He was just using you! You had sex wayyy too soon into the relationship. That was your first mistake. He only wants you for the sex. He doesnt want you as a person. Girls dont understand that sex is NOT a way to get a boy to like you, or commit to you. Thats why you shouldnt go throwing it around like its nothing! It should mean something, and should only be given to the person you know you will be spending the rest of your life with, not given to some immature, horny boyfriend. Sex is no foundation for love. Thats why relationships based on sex dont last! Sex is a stronger urge in men>Men just typically won’t pass up a chance for sex. Sex is not a way to get a guy to love you , hes only using you this way . He hasnt got any respect for you and he doesn`t love you . He would be with you physically ,but not and never with his heart . He probably would dump you after having sex, because he got what he wanted . Not your heart or soul , but just your body. You may want to have sex to prove your’re emotional commitment, but your partner may be interested only in sex, not you. and if you have sex, you may end up feeling hurt or and used. Sex cant save a relationship. Mature relationships are built on mutal trust and repect, having sex wont make a relationship work. Having sex to prove your love for somone is one of the worse mistakes anyone can make. Sexual pressure is a sure sign that the motivation is LUST rather than LOVE! Get rid of the loser, and please learn from this whole experience. Thats what young relationships are all about…learning. Dont have sex with a boyfriend. Sex doesnt prove anything, but how easy the girl is, and what she is willing to do to get love!

I FEEL THAT ONCE YOU GIVE SEX MAN FORGET ABOUT THE FEELING THAT ARE YOUR HEART. JUST REMEMBER THAT MEN AND WOMEN THINK AND FEEL DIFFERENT

Pull back..Let him come to you! Be unavalable, don’t pick up the phone all the time when he calls. Occassionally pick up or call him back with a short sweet quick phone call and be vague. This will get him to wonder where you are, who you’re with and what you’re up to. Never try to make him jealous with another man, his mind will go there all on it’s own. You need to occupy his mind space and think of you…miss you. BTW.. I don’t think that you had sex too soon. From what I read, you waited 3months..good job! Best of luck.