How do you keep a boy interested without sex?

my ex boyfriend dumped me because I wouldn’t have sex with him, I was 13. he said boys don’t like it when you refuse them sex. he fingered me and I gave him a blowjob but what he really wanted was to go all the way. I didn’t want to because I’m scarred of getting pregnant or of getting an infection or something. I’m fine now about sex as I know about protection and things like that but I was still wondering is there a way to keep boys interested without sex as sex is suppose to be something special… please help!

Answer #1

Yup at this age we think about sex every second plot ways ti have sex and stuff but you gave him a blowjob and he wasent satisfied dang he got problems if you think hes trying to pressure you or force you to have sex dump him cause he doeaent love you he just wants that one time and he’ll dump you right after

Answer #2

ya there are guys out there that arent out just for sex you just have to find them and it they try to push sex on you then just tell them no and if they say there going to dump you because you wont have sex dump them

Answer #3

dont do anything you dont want to.no one is worth it.if a guy is worth it he’ll stay interested just because of you,and wont push.

Answer #4

unfortunately all boys at your age think about sex and want sex. be patient and you’ll find someone that is more interested in your mind. rather than your body.

Answer #5

speaking from a male perspective, put your foot down and say NO. If he forces himself on you, that is called rape. Any sexual act performed against your will is considered forcible rape. You have the right to say no and kick him to the curb. If he agrees to your rejection, then maybe show interest in some OTHER thing that he may be interested. I was a boy once and i learned very early in life to respect my girl. Now, she is my wife.

Just my two cents worth.

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