HELP PLEASE MY MOM AND I ARE HAVING MAJOR ISSUES

try to talk to a family councelor, maybe then the councelor can talk it out to your mom. but mean while just try to be more and more patient. and maybe you can move to your grandparents house until things get better. all my good wishes for you.

I think you need to sit your mom down for a serious talk. It will be helpful if you have a third person there (someone you can trust) in case your mom attempts to chatise you for wanting to have a talk.

I cant move to my grandparents house, I have a grandma but she can barely take care of herself and my mom wont let me move. I have a place to stay that is safe and a good healthy enviornment for me to live in but my mom wont let me move. Not because she doesnt want to but because she says she has to raise me because thats what her job is.I just wish she would care about my happiness rather then being concerned about what other people will think. I cant really tlk 2 a family counselor either I love in a small town and their are none where I live

My relatives other then my brother and my dad all believe that she is the perfect mom because around them she does not yell at me and she is nice to me. I cant really tlk 2 a school counselor because the conselor at my school does not want to tlk about serious issues. She told my best friend who has depression that she did not want to tlk about her suicidal thoughts. The teachers at my school are pretty much the same as the counselor outside of teaching the required material they really dont want anything to do with their students. I dont have many options

Thanks 4 all your advice and thanks 4 the rose thats sweet :)

sorry to hear that, well maybe you can just spend more time outside by join an after school activity?

I cant im not allowed to my mom said it takes up top much of my time

Try a teacher, school counselor, another relative, or some other adult that you can trust.

I’ve tried tlkn to my mom about it already in front of my brother and my dad they both know what she does and they ignore it. My brother and my dad both leave when she starts yelling at me they dont know how to handle it or what to do. I wish so badly that I could leave, I have a place where I could stay but I know that if my mom found me shed just come and get me. I really just wish she would understand that I am not happy at home and she openly admited that she is not happy about me living with her either. But she said that its her responsibility 2 take care of me until im 18.

I’d suggest that you talk with your state’s youth welfare agency. If there isn’t one in your town then try writing to them.

Boys Town National Hotline

Call With Any Problem, Any Time

1-800-448-3000

http://www.boystown.org/hotline/index.asp

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If there’s any way you can get a recording of what she says about you, it’s possible that you can prove to your other relatives that your mom is being… the way she is. Even if it’s just audio, like a tape recorder in your pocket, it’s still something. If your relatives STILL don’t help you, try talking to the police or something about child abuse laws, just say that your curious. Don’t tell them that it might be happening at your house, but research child abuse laws and see if that’s actually what is happening. If she is, get HER to a counselor. ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. ITS YOUR MOM’S FAULT AND DON’T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE. Do your best to remain patient with her. Hope this helps