Friend is bipolar and told neighbor lies

I agree about the labeling thing, there are many bipolar people with good morals who wouldn’t do something like that and non-bipolar people who would, her disorder may not even be the cause.

Anyway, I would confront your old friend and your neighbor. Since you have already decided to move, just remind youself that you know those things aren’t true and the way these people are treating you is totally unjustified. Be patient and when you do encounter the neighbor, whether you confront him or not, let it be his problem. Trust me, I know its not easy, but try to remember that they do not need to have so much power over how you feel. It is wrong and unfair, but be thankful you are not that type of person. I don’t think manipulation by “playing the weaker side” will help you, it seems it would only make you just as immature. If you do cry when you talk to them and tell them you’re hurt thats fine, as long as it’s not to be manipulative.

huh. that reallysux. you could always take the pitty route and start crying to them and, you know playing the weaker side. maybe they will see how wrong they were and how much they hurt you and turn on the bipolar girl.

yaa I agree with heyjay2 you should go for a wearker side it might work

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confront the “bipolar girl”…does she have a name? I hate to just label her like that. anyways, confront her and tell her how it’s affecting you and your husband. tell her you two are good people and need for her to go to your neighbors and tell them the truth.