Pushed them to talk

So I may have pushed my friend(We’ll call her Elly) and the guy I like(We’ll call him Theo) to talk to each other. Because I know Elly was curious about him And it sure seemed like Theo was curious about Elly. So there we go, I went ahead and pushed them! Because I love them both, and I want to make them happy. PLus I don’t want to be selfish or anything. But. Theo goes and asks ‘would you date me’ Elly says ‘yes’. And then Elly goes on about how he is hot, and cool. And she wants us all to talk again tonight? I don’t know how I will manage a smile while I feel like I do…I’m glad I could make them happy but… Now..I kind of hurt…And I have no idea why…I should be happy enough that I made my loved ones happy so…whats going on here?

Answer #1

Aw just keep strong! [y] In teenage years its unlikely they’ll be together for ages anyway..

Answer #2

Im super sorry about that Lea. I know how it feels. If I were you I would talk to your friend and tell her how much it hurt her. She would either let him go or keep him. Its nice your accepting that but shes your friend and should respect you.

Answer #3

Just a small bit of jelousy. You liked him too but you put them together knowing that they liked each other. I think that was really awesome of you to do, not many girls are like that. Don’t worry I am sure you will find a guy you like that you are compatable with.

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