Help. My dreams are scaring me

Im afraid to go to sleep because my every dream I have and have had for the past 2 weeks has been of me cheating on my girlfriend. I dont want to cheat on her and in the dreams I am doing it but not by my own will. Its bc of some unseen force. Idw to cheat on her and I wont. in my dreams I am running up to certian girls and just deep kissing them. Nothing else. But I know in my head that it is wrong and idw to do t but I do anyway. I have sent my girl a msg about this to explain why I wont be sleeping for a while. Why am I having these dreams. Please help me

Answer #1

its just that I’ve been havening them nonstop for 2 weeks now. I know it sounds like othing but im afraid that they will somehow make me want to do that and it not seem as bad. I don’t know but they are freaking me out. I’ve had dreams where I’ve been tourtured or killed but I wud rather have those dreams over these

Answer #2

Don’t worry about it, if you don’t want to cheat on your girlfriend then don’t do it.

If you don’t want to cheat on her, then these dreams shouldn’t mean a thing. All that matters in the end would have to be your willpower.

Answer #3

LOL “unseen force.”

dude it’s just a stupid dream.. it’s no big deal. those dreams aren’t even that bad. you should be happy you’re having dreams where you’re kissing hot girls and not nightmares where you’re like getting killed or some sh1t..

sigh. you’re not crazy, there’s nothing wrong with you, it has no hidden meaning, IT’S JUST A DREAM.

Answer #4

your dreams are not responsible for your actions in real life. if you end up cheating on your girlfriend then that’s YOUR FAULT, not your dreams’. if you had a dream that you raped a cat are you really going to be tempted to do it the next day? no. but if you DO end up raping a cat then YOU are the only one to blame.

anyway, like I said earlier I personally don’t believe that dreams have any meaning, BUT other people say that dreams really mean the opposite of what they portray. so if you’re dreaming about kissing other girls, then maybe that just means you really miss your girlfriend and can’t wait to kiss her.

Answer #5

Here I pulled this off of a dream interpretation site.

Do with it as you will, but in the end it is your own feelings about the one you love that will dictate your actions.

Kiss

To dream of a kiss, denotes love, affection, tranquility, harmony, and contentment. To see others kissing in your dream, suggests that you are too involved in their personal lives and relationship. You need to give them some space. If the dream ends just about you are about to kiss someone, indicates that you are unsure of how he or she really feels about you. You are looking for some sort of relationship with this person but you are not sure about how to go about achieving it. If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are kissing someone of the same sex, then it represents self-acceptance. You are acknowledging the feminine or masculine side.

To dream that you are kissing someone’s hand, signifies respect.

To dream that you are kissing someone else’s boyfriend or girlfriend, indicates your wish to be in a relationship and to experience the energy of love. You may be sexually acting out and desire to awaken your passion. Alternatively, it indicates a lack of integrity on your part.

If you are kissing a close friend, then it represents your respect and adoration for your friend. You are seeking some intimate closeness that is lacking in some waking relationship. It may or may not signify a romantic interest for him or her.

To dream of kissing an enemy, signifies betrayal, hostility, or reconciliation with an angry friend. Consider also the saying “this kiss of death”. If you are kissed by a stranger, then your dream is one of self-discovery. You need to get more acquainted with some aspect of yourself.

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