How to help him not be scared?

My boyfriend wants to reach up my shirt and touch my chest but doesnt have enough nerve to. he’s scared ill get mad at him so how can I help him not be scared

Answer #1

Guide his hand there once you want him to do it. Or just tell him that it would be okay and you’d want him to. He just doesn’t want to ruin anything by trying and moving too fast. He’s letting you control the tempo.

Answer #2

well hony you need to just sit beside him grab his hand and put his hand up your shirt on your breast and move is hand around on them to let him no its ok

Answer #3

First, leave the bra at home. Then, assuming that you both speak and understand English, just come right out and tell him what you want. He shouldn’t be expected to read your mind. If you’re kind of nervous and excited doing that, your heart will be beating fast and hard. Tell him how fast and hard it’s beating and ask him if he can feel it as he plays with your breasts. Hold his head between your breasts where he can hear your heartbeat.

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