My boyfriend is in jail for something he didnt do

My boyfriend of almost 7 months is in jail. For a crime he supposedly committed. But he was with me that time and day it happened!! His bond is a million.. So ita 100,000 he’s facing a lot of time there. No one will help him out. The only one who can get him that money, wont. He said his word doesn’t mean anything to him anymore. How messed up is that! My boyfriend is such a great person. And he would never ever in a million years do something like that.I dont know what to do. He wants me to wait for him. I want too. But im 18 I should be out having fun..being with the guy who loves me just as much as I love him! He’s such an amazing person. I want to sit at home and wait by the phone for his call. But I want to go out with my friends and get it off my mind. But when I do I feel so guilty, knowing that he’s sitting there adn im out having fun. I feel so disgusted with myself. I can’t be alone, because thats when I really sit and think about it all and all I do is cry and cry and cry. I wish I was there right next to him holding him. He won’t tell me the whole story why he’s there, but he didnt do it!!! I’m his alaby but no one will listen to me. I dont know what to do. He already has a black eye and a broken nose and he’s only been in there for a few days. What do I do! How do I make this waiting easier!! I dont want to sit and cry anymore! I need to get my story across!!

Answer #1

wow. I went through kinda the same thing. and im only 14 I know exactly how you feel. all I can say is that you should sent aside a time either alone or with a close friend and look into your heart, see if he is worth waiting for, and really think about what makes you happy and where you see yourself in the future. in every relationship there is a point were you have to think, am I committed or am I not. and in my case I was committed and willing to wait for him and be there for him, not only becasue he needed me, but becuase I knew that in the end I would be happy just knowing I had be there to support him, and was the only person that didn’t leave when he made a mistake. if you look into your heart long enough the answer will come. as for waiting..I had school and I just through myself into anything I was given, puttin all my energy into it. to get your story across I would go to my parents for advice or help, and they never failed. good luck and keep your head held high…if not for you…do it for him!

Answer #2

Thanks for the adivce guys. I understand that they must have evidence against him. but the timeline just doesnt add up. we were together at the time theyre saying it happened. and me and my boyfriends sister think that it was this other guy that did it. but gave my boyfriends name. because this other guy is known for doing this kinda bad thing. I don’t know. I really dont want to say what its for. but. its not pretty. I want to be there for him and wait for him. and thats what im going to do. I just need to be stronger.

Answer #3

What crime was commited? They must have pretty good evidence that he did it or he wouldnt be the one in jail. I’m not accusing him, but they dont just go around throwing innocent people in jail…

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