why is my boyfriend in jail acting distant to me and cold

so my boyfriend who was also my best friend for a really long time is now in jail and has been since mid may (it’s now august) he gets out in december and for a while everything was going really well considering he was in jail… we would talk everyday and everything was going great.. but now I’m leaving for college in a couple days and lately he’s been being a jerk to me.. like he’ll say things and then be like it’s a joke cant you take a joke and he’s talking about how he’s gonna go back and smoke a whole bunch of weed when he gets out againand he knows I dont want him to. before he wanted to completely change and go back to school and everything… I dont know what happened! but he’s being mean and I can tell he’s sad but why is he taking it out on me? is he just afraid to lose me or that we’re growing apart or something?

Answer #1

maybe its because hes in jail and he just having a hard time in their make him that you love him and you cant wait to see him out of jail

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