yesh... we have complete controll
but its up to you to decide if you WANT to be in controll...
if not you will conform to what people tell you and you WONT have controll
it depends on what you believe in and how you see it. like if you believe in destiny then you probably don't have any control. but then again... you won't know your destiny as no one is supposed to if it even exists.
if you don't believe in destiny then it's up to you on weather you want to be in control or you want to make other people overpower you and have complete authority. of course... it's not the best thing to do... if your talking about strict parents then that's another story... eventually... I think you will have control. destiny or no.His will?