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How can I break away?

I met this guy through a friend about a year ago. I asked him if he had a girlfriend one time and he told me no. well we hung around each other and one night about a couple monthafter meeting one another we did kiss. well I found out he did have a girlfriend and he acted like he told me about her and I told him no. well one night he was with her and he called my name instead of her name and well we didnt speak to each other for about 4 months. well still not talking to one another he asked my cousinand myself out to dinner and I didnt want to go but my cousin made me. I went and we became friends just hanging out. well the hanging out became almost an everday thing and one day well we did sleep with one another. have never spoken about it never brought it up we act like it didnt happen. when I asked about the girlfriend he talks bad about her and he is never really with her. I need to break away help me I dont want him to hate me but I dont want to hurt myself

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Answer #1

you need to break ties with this guy, he isnt a good guy and will only drag you into a rut if you keep speaking to him. He has no idea about life it sounds like. Think about number one- yourself! he is only going to bring you pain and misery, he is a cheater and a user obviously. Find someone you can be yourself with, with open communication and love.

Answer #2

Dear helpme38, Stay away from this person…he isn’t in to you. You won’t hurt him by walking away and don’t worry about him hating you. He has a girlfriend who he cheated on if you were his girlfriend he’d be cheating on you too. Because you wrote this question I know that you care about yourself and you want better. So get better and do not pursue someone who just isn’t into you start looking for someone who is. Sue…good luck

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