How do I break it off without breaking his heart?

Well, I’m in a relationship, but I don’t know if I really like my b/f as much as I had thought…I think I’ve confused feelings of loneliness for those of lust. There are also some factors that stand in the way like the fact that we live about 20 mins away from eachother, lead busy lives and barely get to see eachother. I have fun with him, but I think I’ve gotten in too deep to just say “umm ya, the thing we have…not working! its over”. I just want an excuse to break it off before the relationship goes even farther… any suggestions?

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Answer #1

Are you sure that's the real reason cause you also have another thing on here talking about how your embarresed to show his picture to your friends.You should be honest to yourself cause that's probabaly the real reason u don't want him, your just scared to admit that cause it's shallow.

Answer #2

I don't think you need an 'excuse' to break up with him. He'll see through that anyway. Just tell him that you thought you were ready for a 'relationship,' but you aren't, that you need to work some more on yourself–alone. That way it relates to you–and not him–which sounds like the case anyway. His heart might be bruised by this, but it won't break. And then he'll be free to find someone who really does want him, and you will be also. Blessings

Answer #3

It’s going to have to happen. If it hasn’t already.

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