I feel so alone and unhappy

Hi, I know everyone gets on here and talks about how they feel like crap and it might get annoying. But I need help. I don’t know who I am anymore. I feel really alone. Like, I may look all “Woo hoo!” but…no. Or I don’t know. I know my values but, who I am? I feel like dying. Though I know that’s not the answer. I feel ugly. Not normal ugly, like monster Medusa-esque. I see women like Aishwarya Rai & I’m like “How am I ever going to get a guy to like me?” Is there anything I can do besides…therapy. (Because that will go on my record). I mean does anyone know the answers to these kinds of things? Sure, everything in my life is fantastic. Except me. I always do EVERYTHING wrong. I’m in constant fear of “What will people think?”. People say stuff like that I act like I’m better. I DON’T!!! I know I don’t because I make every effort to be nice. I’m just confused. I want ideas. What would you do? What makes you happy? Please help me.

Answer #1

Hey, take it easy on yourself! You know we all have our good days and bad days. I feel like crap sometimes but I don’t let t get me down because it’s important to remember what actualy makes us love life. And there are TONS of stuff that I know you love as much as I do. How about a great conversation with a good friend? Or your favorite food? Or listening to your favorite song? Or seeing that cute guy you really like? Those are all things that make you who you are. It takes time to get to know oneself and figure out what we really want and who we really want to be with. Actualy it’s a never ending process because we change as we grow older and gain experiences. So you got to get out there and live, have fun and for gods sakes stop worrying what poeple think! (you know they are all worrying about what you think too right?) Also, why would you want to be Aishwarya Rai? Guys don’t want super stars, they just want a girl they can relate too and have fun with. Don’t feel alone. We are all in this together. Concentrate on the good, the inspiring, the fun and remember that every bad day is one more step to 10 good days.

Answer #2

Wow, I’m EXACTLY like you. I wish I knew how to fix this :(

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