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HELP! How do you get a girlfriend?

PLEASE HELP I desprately need someboy to love, to be there for me, WHO WILL LOVBE ME BACK FOR WHO I AM. I’ve only had one and when I did, I felt happier then I’ve ever felt in my entire life, EMOTIONALLY. (perverts) and when she left… my world collapsed. and still hasn’t been rebuilt… I get attached very easily. ever since I’ve been lonely and depressed because that element that fealing of love isn’t there anymore. I don’t even notice when a girl is hot anymore since. and certianly not guys. ever since I’ve just lost it. how can I fix this and how in the world can I get a girlfriend? and FYI I dont want sex. nor have I had it. that is NOT what this is about. thank you.

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Answer #1

anyone who calls you desperate just needs to shut up. I definitely definitely think you are SWEET :D there are 2 types of guys that girls look for. a. Mr. Tough Man Hunk “I-crush-beer-cans-on-my-head” guys b. Mr. Sweet Sensitive “aww-he’s-so-cute” guy.

I say go for B! It seems to fit you a little better than A. And of course the blunt truth is that finding someone who is good to you is a very hard thing to do. You should go out into the world more so people see you and you have a better chance at getting a girlfriend. I believe you don’t want sex. That is a stereotype against guys, sadly. You should find something else to focus on, some other part of your life and obsess over that constantly. If you are lonely you always have friends, and it does take some convincing to believe that friends are there for you. Ha, here is another idea… Have you seen the movie Yesman? If you haven’t then basically just say yes to everything for a while. “You want to go a party?” “yes.” “Do you like football?” “Yes.” “Would you be willing to get a tattoo?” “Yes.” pretty simple stuff. When you trap yourself in your house, all alone, because it is easier, it always makes the time go by slower and makes you notice your loneliness even more. ps. girls get lonely too. Anybody can get lonely. You are not alone in this. (no pun intended)

Answer #2

Girls expect a lot.Girls always want a man who shows them real love.A man who can be romantic and keep them safe.Try showing them your softest and sweetest side.Call it out to the world what you want in a relationship and think positively.Act as if you already have your dream girl.Say:your house is a mess,clean it up like your trying to impress somebody! Be a good gentleman but dont be all fancy-hancy just have good manners.Be laid back and relaxed,and show them that you really care.And some girls dream of having beautiful love story…Girls want to be approachable and attractive.Once the girl meets your eye,and you have the slightest interest,catch up conversation…Be friendly and not stalkerish or desperate.Theres an easy way to say this,Be a MAN.Dont do stupid crap.Be smart and treat us ladies like ladies,and respect us and treat us RIGHT! You will be on your way,to that perfect girl…

Answer #3

‘’PLEASE HELP I desprately need someboy to love’’ Don’t go looking for a girl friend with that attitude, it makes you seem desperate. I think being to desperate is a turn off for chicks.

good luck

Answer #4

hmm usually people who look like you need help getting rid of girlfriends wow that is odd

Answer #5

Start just sweet talking and flirting and stuff like that dont go straight into the deep end, if the girl likes you she might be a bit shy at the start but dont let that put you down. keep on and be confident… go with you gut feeling. Hope it helps and good luck x

Answer #6

Aww im really sorry and I know its hard but you just have to keep your head up and look forward. And if they dont like you for rreasons they shouldnt then forget about them. Message me if you just want to talk or something sor need more personal advice. :) hope I helped Kristin

btw: your fine as hell:)

Answer #7

Wow you sound like a great guy. Just ask a girl out. Just be straight forward. Girls like that dont be shy. Thats a big turn on for girls.

Answer #8

All the advice above,is really good too! P.S. you are hot. :)

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